Have you crossed paths with people in a bad mood? This may be due to the stress with which one lives daily, the problems and the bad news. But there are people who are immune to the bad mood tsunami that we live on a daily basis. Surely you wonder how they do to stay calm when others are angry.
1. Respect the other Think Differently
The people who remain calm during storms grouchy are those who respect the other thinks differently than they do. They do not try to change the thought of the other because they know that there is more than one correct way to reach the same truth and that there is not a single way of asserting that something is true.
It is not about saying yes to everything to avoid arguments, but you can talk in an adult way without aggression or brawls that lead to nothing.
2. Wait and do not Judge
Before taking the side of anyone who is arguing with another, listen to the two bells. It is not right to rush any kind of negative judgment about someone without knowing exactly what happened.
What you should do is take a minute, breathe deeply and listen to the two bells to make your own decision. What happens many times is that people act under the influence of stress, this is negative and they put everyone in a bad mood. If you relax, think what you are going to say and listen to all the arguments, you will miraculously keep in a good mood.
3. Always keep the Positive Mind
Keeping the positive in mind is a good option if you want to avoid arguments and fights. When the day is over, reflect on everything you have done and put on the balance what was good and bad. If you always keep the positive in mind, you can be calm even in the worst situations.
4. Do not take Everything Personally
There is something you should know: you are not the center of the universe and not all things refer to you. Therefore, when someone says something, do not take it as a personal thing because, if you do, you will live angry all your life. While we can not take care of what other people say or do, we can stay focused on ourselves and avoid the bad mood that these malicious comments cause us.
5. Speak less!
Do not fall into unnecessary arguments just because you think the silence is uncomfortable or try to always stay with the last word. Like any person, you have the ability to choose what to answer and when to do it, do not forget it!
Staying out of bad temper storms is something we can all learn to do if we follow these tips. Remember that a world without anger or fights is a much better place to live.