Commitment is the great step that serves as a prelude to marriage and is the phase that makes us feel that the union we have with our partner is more than strong. Although we feel this way, it is important that we take a moment to know some things and to make sure that everything goes as we want.
1. The Ambitions of the other
One very important aspect to take into account has to do with personal aspirations . Knowing what the other’s goals are is the cornerstone of the relationship.
Christian? Catholic? Buddhist? Regardless of faith and / or creed, both must analyze whether their beliefs are the same, whether they can complement each other, or whether it will only be an augury of problems.
It is another delicate subject that must be spoken as frankly as possible, because this depends on future planning, especially if you think about having children.
4. Have Children or Not
It is important to be on the same wavelength when playing this particular topic. To have them or not is a matter of two. By the way, that also includes if one has children from a previous relationship.
5. Political Inclinations
This is also linked to civil rights and controversial issues. Again, it is important to be in the same tune .
6. How do you Feel when you Travel?
A great way to get to know each other, as well as your customs and habits, is to travel together. Do they make a good team? Do they complement each other? Do they help each other? Every aspect is important.
7. How you Deal with Stress
Not everything will be rosy, so it will be vital to determine the attitude to complex situations and if both are able to work together to achieve the objectives that arise.
8. Importance for marriage
Marriage is the celebration, but the real crux of the matter is marriage. The relationship is everyday, which includes good and bad times. It is good to concentrate from time to time more on this and to think that it is a really serious matter.
9. The Future
It is true that nothing is written, but as a couple it is important to have plans together and that these correspond to the aspirations pursued together and individually. If this does not exist, it is time to make an evaluation.
There are other items that also have to be taken into account when we commit ourselves: the habits, the families of both and how they take each other, the friends, the way they talk. Each aspect allows us to build a solid relationship that envisions love, respect and fellowship.